Wow! How to sum up *40* years?! I went to college in Rhode Island, moved 1981 with my fiancee Jane to S. Cal, later met Ardith, we got engaged, moved to Bay Area within 2 years... married 1983. Ardith and I lived there (no kids) for ten years, running around to Hawaii, Vancouver, Mexico, HongKong, Bali (mostly on other people's money btw!). I worked in computer tech sales, played tennis, and occasionally did crazy stuff like jumping out of an airplane or hang gliding just to try it. Went to Lake Tahoe a lot too. Ardith and I split 1993. My Dad died. I met Donna, we got engaged. We married 1995, honeymooned in Paris and Italy. My Mom died 98. We had our boys, Zac and Evan, in 97 and 99, moved to North Carolina 2000. We live in Raleigh. I still play tennis (better, actually!), my boys are black belts in taekwondo, and Donna is a yoga and Pilates fanatic. My younger son, Evan, is an actor, and Zac writes for the school paper. They both study Spanish. I work at Cisco as a Program Manager, and Donna has her own consulting business. My boys won't stop videogaming, Zac plays metal on electric, and the cats never stop eating, nor does Zac - he's about 6ft 2in now. We're a pretty typical American middle-class family I think.